I am going to be 30 in January. I am unemployed, I am not married and I don’t have children. These were my goals for when I turned 30 and only one may get met before then. I may actually get a job.

For me this has made me rethink my goals. That and some other issues that have arisen since I have moved. I have decided I am done dating. My new plan is to buy a small house and get lots of pets. Really, I’m just hoping to put my 20’s behind me and forget they ever happened, kinda like my teen years. In fact can I lose most of my life before 30?

I’ve not completely given up as I will say that I am allowed to change my mind, but I think to avoid more disappointment in my life I need to lower my standard and goals. Things do happen for a reason, and I know I should learn from my mistakes, and I am. That is why these changes are taking place. I have been with more men than I care to admit to and none have been able to commit, so I’m done. It’s me time!

What about you. Have you had goals in your life you haven’t met in time? What did you do?

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