So it seems that for the last few weeks on all of the dating sites I have been active on I am only getting guys that will talk to me just fine for about 5-10 minutes and then it all turns to sex.
Usually it’s a random question and really it turns me off really quick. I really want to know though how you go from talking about what movie you like to “send me a sexy picture.” How does that happen! I guess I’m starting to understand why so many people are getting fed up with dating sites and leaving them in droves. It just seems like the only men out there can’t hold a decent conversation anymore.
Really is this how men are being raised now?
A few of these conversations have gone like this:
Man: hi how are you
Me: I’m good how are you
Man: I’m good. What are you up to?
Me: Nothing just working
Man what you up to after work
Me: Going home to bed
Man: Can I join you?
At this point I just stop talking, not only are they not even asking me anything about myself (not even my name) but they are already trying to get into bed with me! Really, even a guy at a bar is a little more tactful and usually they are drunk. Of course, these men could be, but I really hope they are not as usually this conversation takes place during the day, but who knows!
I hate to say this but I’m starting to see a downside to women’s rights, the fact that men have now decided we don’t deserve to be respected and it’s getting worse. I’ve it wasn’t for the fact that I’m really tired of being alone I would give up on dating for a while, but I hit 30 and really would like to actually have a serious relationship.